This new year I wanted to come up with something to work on and I wanted it to not be about my weight or a new diet or whatever. I have tried so hard this past year to worry less about the number on the scale and focus on just being healthy. But if you know me at all, I have struggled with body issues and mental issues about my body my whole entire life! It consumes my every thought most days. I have to constantly tell myself I look ok, I am not sure why it is so deeply ingrained in me but I fight the body shaming demons in my head almost every single day! I will catch a glimpse of the cellulite on my thighs, or a fat roll on my back or the dreaded flabby arms in the mirror and it will consume my thoughts for the rest of the day. It sucks. I often look at other people enjoying their life in their not so perfect bodies and I am so jealous of them.
Believe it or not this past year I have actually been better than I have ever been at trying to accept me for me, even though it is still there, I have come a long way. As soon as i start to think those negative things I try to stop myself and focus on the good, and tell myself that if my friends and family dont like me because i am a little chubby, I don’t want them as friends. I have to believe that my friends could care a less what my body looks like and hopefully love me for what’s inside? I know that’s how i feel about my friends. So why i put a different standard on myself I will never know?
When looking to find the perfect message to put on my message board for the New Year, I saw this one and knew this was it, this is my new years resolution. I am going to try to love my body more and criticize it less, sounds easy right? Might be the hardest one yet actually, but I sure hope I stick to it because I believe that is the key to happiness… Love yourself and all it’s beautiful imperfections!!
Love it friend!! I’m right there with you. Positivity! Woooo!!!! My new saying to myself is, “if I was 16 and saw what i looked like at 50 the way I am, would I be happy about that?” Damn straight I would. Haha! So embracing myself cellulite and all. Still want to work on getting healthy though! Love you friend! Thanks for the post!
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You are so right!! I’m so glad i have friends like you who totally get me!! Love you and here’s to being more healthy mentally and physically in 2020 , cheers!!🥂
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